This weekend, I had a couple girls back out of being suite mates with my roommate and me next year. Why?
The reason that they gave my roommate (who is good friends with them) was that they did not want to be around me. I was a bad influence. Because they are in young life they can’t do it.
In reality, they both like to go out as often as I do (which is not much, maybe once a month at the most.) They really just want my current roommate and another one of their friends to be roommates and live with them.
Why can’t they just tell me that? Instead of making it seem like I’m a terrible person and they don’t want to associate with me.
My feelings are so hurt.